sistah love

My sister surprised us with a visit a week ago and today she's extended her stay. Her being here has been a positive jolt to my system. I don't know how to describe it. In the simplest terms, just having her wider perspective has done so much for me. I am feeling better, more confident and just happy. We saw each other last year and we speak often, but to have her physical presence is great. She travelled to Bali this year, and she has come back with a very different outlook. To hear how much she now gets how energies work and is so much more mindful about what she wants to achieve and is accomplishing is infectious at the very least. We spoke about one or two people close to her, and it was insightful as well. One is always complaining that they are unwell, but will not work towards getting better, despite all that they have been told and know. The other person is an old flame that she has had a tendency to contact every time she comes. The third is someone I wrote about recently who she and I conclude actually hates women and himself. What talking about these people did for both of us this time is pinpoint exactly how we all can keep ourselves back. The first person needs to go on a diet. They prefer to sleep and to eat copious rounds of bacon and then they say that they have a back pain, night sweats. They hate vegetables and hop in an Uber every chance they can get. We now see that their behavior affects their job and their relationship. So if you feel that you can make an excuse in one part of your life...it spills over into every part of your life. The old flame she has realised is not changing for the better. Sadly she has left him behind longer than she had thought, and she has come to terms with the fact that some people are in your life at one time and not for another. The last person, is a relative. However, he has a pattern that screams cautionary tale. I appreciate that through these people I can look at myself, at all that I do in my life and I can make adjustments because of that.