a new comfort zone

You just have to change your mind. Things get so uncomfortable and there are no guarantees, but you just cannot stay where you are.To do so would mean certain death. The old way just does not serve you. The hardest part is all of that negative, fear mongering your inner thoughts are going to chime up and place at the forefront of your thinking. It is also the observations your going to make about why you can't change. People are going to crop up too, people you love and people who mean well, and all of that is the stuff you have to just walk through on your way to thinking differently if you want to change to something more. Remember that.