Enjoy your life anyway

This came to me today

I suddenly thought, suppose I do not get anything or anywhere I want to in life, what really would I regret?
When I do an introspection, I usually say that I should have enjoyed things more, and with thoughts of my ex, we should have had more sex.
It all comes back to more joy, period.
We act as though being argumentative,aggressive,anxious,whatever takes us along at the time, would somehow enhance our control over life when we have none really.
We may in fact love the weird game?

So,what is this 'enjoy your life anyway'really mean?
In some ways, it is so simple. It is as simple as seeing beauty in my surroundings.
It is saying to myself, hey, I feel like sleeping an hour later, or I feel like working two hours longer to get this project done.

It is about finding complete fullfilment as real in all things.

It is listening to the hunches, and not letting the sadness and stresses of life overwhelm me.

It is listening to my mind and hearing myself being more optimistic about what I want in the moment and moment to moment.