This past week, a thought jumped into my head.I know people who are having lives that seem really nice. I know that a good life is possible? What is this"good" life? A life where your child feels safe and protected, wealthy and healthy. You can plan to do things without second guessing every penny you have. You have friends who get you and support you, and you create wonderful experiences together. When you are by yourself you feel contented in the knowledge that you have built a life on your own terms and you look around and feel satisfaction about it all. You can go on vacation at least once or twice a year, and you feel energized and sated by the experiences of new things and friendships. .......... Come on now, that should not feel like some sort of impossible thing to create!