more thoughts ...on love... For me I have always known that friendship is at the heart of any other type of relationship. Particularly one that is romantic.Without being friends, I think that a romantic relationship cannot really be strong. ...on work... The things that I do to make a living are things that I enjoy. I am one of those people who can be placed under...love what you do, do what you love... Well, guess what, that sentiment is not actually accurate. You can love what you do, making it very enjoyable, but it doesn't mean that you'll make money or become wealthy...although it should mean that. ...money... It's good to have it. No doubt about it, and every day, when you can't pay your phone bill or see to your health because you don't have the finances, is a day where despite logic, it means everything because you weigh yourself by money. You feel really bereft when you can't pay for things. Your very attitude changes when you don't have.When you have, you don't think about it. You spend. Your needs are close. When you don't have, your suddenly small...anxious. Its crappy, and that's how it is. No matter how much you tell yourself that it isn't that way. ...sex... It is all in the head, and it is personal to you. Your attitude about it is everything. The hope is to meet someone who makes being with them something that feels right. Sustaining attraction takes the work to want to explore things together...to want to share your fantasies and to be really comfortable with each other...see friendship. ...wealth... As much about health as it is about literal cash.I have seen people with money spend the last year of their life as if in poverty. So what is wealth? The pedestrian answer is having more than enough.Put that way, then wealth is very attainable. Having friends,a job,family...that can be all part of wealth. ...on life... A big part of living is in always having ideas and plans. It is essential to be motivated.There is so much to blindside, to scare, to beleaguer, to doubt...you need people or at least someone to talk to whom you can trust or at least want to speak to who can listen without judgement. It's nice to hear from myself. I am going to do this from time to time.