twenty sixteen possibilities

Many are calling 2016 antis horribilis as the Queen had done the year that Buckingham Palace had a fire. But really it feels that way because as someone wrote at the beginning of the year, it only seems as though many more disasters happened and many famous people died, When in actuality, it is simply that with more media, we just know more and more people are being made famous as well. But it was a hell of a year in terms of some famous deaths indeed. From our former prime minister to Cuba's first prime minister, to Carrie Fisher and her mother dying a day after she did, today. Amidst all of that, it is clear that one has to more than ever focus ones attention on getting on with what one needs to do. Over the last few months I have been a sympathetic ear for people I know, and I have had to be very patient at times. I have also become very mindful that I cannot allow myself to be anyone's therapist, as I have not caught the job and I have things that I was able to do this year, and it certainly does not include my being distracted by those who want to vent their frustrations that they themselves cause and I see as actually being their pastime, for any and all advice is almost surely less than taken. That may not sound fair, but here in this blog, I can say it. As I know that I have helped, But for myself, I shall be creating a change of scene for me. I found that not driving for example, to be a colossal pain in the ass this year.I need to look into getting a car. I was able to come up for air from being always in the courts, so that was fantastic! I did quite a few things form career, and I shall definitely be continuing to do much more next year. I am excited and looking forward to seeing my efforts come to fruition, That's wonderful. I am feeling better about letting go of things that I was sentimental about. I think on some of them from time to time, but they are just minor visits of the mind. I am not brooding, and that is great as well. I am up for new experiences that will help me explore new ventures, so that's very cool. I missed writing here, so I set out to do this tonight, and I shall write again before years end.