encounter

My ex-husband's plans for everything to go smoothly when he left the country and arranged for my daughter and I to stay at his home....is (as expected) full of holes. Being in his home has taken an adjustment. I have not had to communicate with him much. But yesterday was an exception in terms of back and forth writing.This has brought me here today because I have a predicament. This four month stay would be best handled as many men consider with women...ie: silence. I do not want to communicate with him because he doesn't know how to do it. He now wants to adjust the arrangement, which I knew he would do. In fact, it is all of his usual stupid moves that irk me so, so I have to do something about that. One of the moves is his trying to show me that he is in some kind of control over the situation. That can be simply dealt with as I did recently with the first presentation made by him . I aquiesced. It was nothing to allow. But his need to control me is maddening! I want to scream!!!