what's up doc!

What experiences I have been having. The first being talk even less and observe even more. The next, keep your assumptions your own observation. There may be no need to get a second or third opinion from others. You may be absolutely right, but that doesn't mean that you have to air the opinion. Talking about other people's lives is none of my business, and it may make me a bland person, but I can discuss ideas instead. I can discuss experiences. I don't have to bring up hunches about people. I state this because I recently found out that someoen I know who got a large financial windfall had to spend it on some serious health issues. I had some old views about the person and was assuming that he was just moving true to form, only to be told by a friend about his challenges. I felt like an asshole about it. Then there is the fact that I can be self rightious sometimes too. I assume that I am doing my best and being this good person, but sometimes I have no idea how I may actually be coming across to others. I need to sometimes just step back and not be so willing to give advice or to think that my opinion is helping.