My sister told me that she'd met a Ukranian guy in 2003 and had liked him a great deal.But after awhile of going out she felt that the relationship may be too difficult and she felt a bit intimidated about it. I had never heard that story and it made me think about moments like that where you are faced with something that you know is good and find yourself getting in the way.Being afraid to do something because you don't want it to fail is just as bad as not doing anything. Every decision defines what you do next. Should you wear the black shoes with jeans? Should you eat cereal or have an energy drink? Some things you barely think about having any real impact. Others, you lament and literally pull your hair out at the root to solve. Feelings and hunches and intuition all come into play for the burning answer to these problems. Talking yourself out of joy is a whole other thing.