set ups

I wonder whether we all give ourselves the issues we face pretty much like a game? I wrote about my problem solver friend in the last entry. I see that need to be right and fix things in her character, but there are also things that I see that I do not believe relate to me at all. None of us get out of our world alive and so we are all entangled in relationships of all kinds.I write about experiences, but what are my expectations? Should I even ever really have any? The only way to happiness according to the Buddha is to have no expectations, and that is very true. We are moved by our emotions and thus, our memories of what said emotions do or have done to us.Everything else is just constant analysis, entertainment and background noise. Who are we?