We agree to proceed as follows for the good of our child-:
1. See to our child's Canadian status.
2. Secure financial supports for our child's future.
3. Work together to maintain a cordial relationship for our child's sake.
Cordiality means showing interest and regard for the other. Working out issues as reasonably as we can, in areas of great difficulty, being willing to have a third party assist.
4. This agreement means that activities involving our child must be observed. This includes as well,doing our best to give a secure family life to our child. We should mark holidays, birthdays and overall, endeavour to put our child's needs above our own.
5. This document must also take into account unforeseen circumstances and how to handle them. If one of us is not working, or one of us forms another relationship with someone else, this document should come up as first priority over our personal needs. Thus it must be fair, and in order for it to be fair, WE must establish a better relationship with the other. This must be part of the agreement. Neither party can work responsibly or to the best of their ability if the other party insists on being litigious or sabotaging in any way. This document MUST be able to assist us in doing what is best for our child at all times.
5. Within reason after the initial trial of working together, we should renew this document and amend it as necessary.
Thursday, June 24, 2010
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