Epilogue

Could my "Y' be my jump off? Ok...now that I have stopped laughing hysterically...could I make an arrangement with him for us to be exclusively the others 'person for sex?" I understand that people do it all the time! Listen to me, like its a done deal! After all that I wrote before, including that the man and I don't even speak amicably. But I am not letting that be a problem. Ha,ha,ha. I literally just Googled it. Waw, what I just read was great! Here are some points-:If you must really know the truth, having sex with an ex rarely ends up as sweet and enjoyable as you think. It may just be the chemicals in our bodies, or something deeper, but almost always, an attachment is formed with an ex after sex, where you’d be left with mixed feelings. One part of you would just want to fall in love with your ex again, while the other part knows the relationship can’t really last. Mostly, at some point, you’d have to choose between your ex and your present amore, or you may just end up having an affair. I hope you do remember this is your ex we’re talking about. There’s a reason the relationship didn’t work out the first time around. It takes a certain amount of control to judge a sex buddy a.k.a. ex lover as something purely physical and nothing more. An occasional hook up now and then has every chance of blooming into a passionate relationship. And let’s face it, do you really think you can survive the romance together with all the differences coming up all over again? It’s not easy to leave emotions out of the picture. You may think you’re James Bond or one of his lusty women who can just swing, jump and walk away without a second look, but walking out of your ex’s bedroom wouldn’t be easy. Feelings and hopes of a second chance start springing up now and then, and with each round of good sex, you can’t help but think “hey, the sex is awesome, should I give this relationship another go?” Are both of you surely out of love? Fat chances are, one of you may still be in love with the other, and keep it a secret. This is especially true in recent break ups where one partner is ready to accept anything just to have more contact with the ex. This sort of a relationship is the worst, because everything starts to spiral around lust and love, and it tends to get nasty when one of you wants out. Even otherwise, old wounds open up, and very soon, both of you would be left wondering “are we having a fling or have we got back together?!” Remember, having sex with an ex is hot, but as with everything else that’s exceptionally good, there are several snappy reactions that can come into the picture. As tempting as it can be, focus on why you broke up with your ex in the first place. And if you have to be friends, try not to think of them as moving sex toys. It may feel nice at first, but it only takes a few passionate nights together in bed to bring back the old memories of a love that never was, and a few more nights of carnal abuse to mess your world up. Sound advice indeed. It may seem convenient. But, this casual thing that i have wondered about it anything but. I would have to literally do a wam, bam, thank you sir with him. I would also have to make it literally a hook up where it cannot become a regular thing, or else feelings would come into play tut sweet!! And hearing about what a bitch I am would sour the whole thing in a heartbeat and leave me angry that i even considered it to begin with. I am glad that I read that.