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After really feeling at a loss to understand what is going on in the mind of my husband, I called him. We were able to talk, but he is still not convincing me that I can feel he is rational. he is now saying that I should focus on getting a job and once that is done, then he'll sign the immigration document for the baby.

I think that I must now leave this matter alone.
I have done all that I can. I cannot reach him, although talking to him was better. he said that the loud text was so that I would notice that part of the letter as important!
Who is he kidding?

It is time to leave this bullshit alone.