My sign yesterday said

Highly animated feelings have produced irrational behaviour in someone, A brewing poignant drama seems ready to erupt. But when the storm breaks, as it soon will, you'll discover the benign method in the madness of this ordered universe.

It is again, as though the papers has these messages placed every day, specifically for me. My husband has been fishing for days about my trip back home. I sent him a copy of my ticket on his birthday, and he was upset that it says three weeks. He choose to send me a hysterical note saying that if I chose to be home for that long, I'd have to find somewhere to stay.
I replied and told him that I wanted to be sure that what I was coming home to do would be done properly. That did not seem to appease him, and my next letter was emotional, because I stated that all of this could be avoided if he hadn't made the dramatic decision he had. I said that I would be returning to deal with my business for how ever long it took, and that I was expecting that his mother and our child would come up to Canada sometime next year with his mother on a visitor's visa, as clearly, doing her business would take years.

He took what I was saying as a threat and his letter to me was so dispicable, that when I wrote him back and called him to tell him this, I sent the whole letter back, stating that all of its contents was objectionable. In the letter he said that he did n't want to have to do it, but if I chose to come back for any longer than a week, I would have to find the money to go through a custody battle with him, because he would demand full custody of our daughter and site my being in Canada, jobless as the reason for demanding full custody. He would say that I was an unfit mother because I am away from our child right now.
He went on to say that my money that I am coming home to deal with, would evaporate in no time, so it was inconsequential. I have not helped him in any significant way to get to Canada, but that he has helped me, and that if he hadn't come along in my life, I would be like my sister, who has two children by two different men. His letter was dispicable to say the least.

I had to call him back, because responding in a note would not be enough.
He claimed that he hadn't said some of the things I just stated above, but of cause this isn't the case. He did say those things, and I have decided that I, as my cousin says, "I'm done!" So this is how he plans to be. As I have always said about him, I am always amased that he has difficulty being kind and so little difficulty being a prick!

In the past, in all of his letters, he has said that he would never keep me from our daughter, and now he is using the lowest tactics possible to get what he wants!
Meanwhile, I have to keep my focus, and do my best not to get sidetracked by all of this bile and stupidity.